People who share a relation through blood does not define a family because blood does not mean people will stay together. A family member supporting another will create a bond that connect each other. Stephanie Coontz, a professor on family, wrote about a life experience when she received support from her family in her essay, “What We Really Miss About the 1950s.” She mentioned a time in her past when a librarian denied her decision on borrowing a book because it was not age appropriate for a child’s mind, so her mother went to the library and provided the courageous voice for Stephanie’s decision in borrowing the book that she wanted (33). Both the mother and librarian wished to act in a way that was beneficial for Stephanie, but those actions were caused by different reasons. The mother supported her daughter as a mother should of done, while the librarian supported Stephanie according to the principle of being a librarian. Even though both mother and librarian supported Stephanie, the only correct support was the one that will benefit Stephanie. The support from a family member to another vary, such as wealth for buying goods, advices for handling problems, or physical abilities for lifting heavy objects . Support from a family member will help in succeeding in a decision. Therefore, a family…