In Amy Chua’s excerpt “The Violin”, the tense relationship between Chua and her daughter Lulu is shown when Lulu asks her to stop thinking even though Chua hadn't said anything..Chua’s daughter sensed her mentally judging her performance and could tell that she was being judgemental. Chua's daughter can tell when she is tense by her posture and facial tells. As judgemental as Chua is of her playing, they still share a loving family bond, This is seen when Chua's daughter exclaims “Turn off your brain mommy”.(Chua 47-48) Even though she can sense her mother's tenseness, she still calls her mommy, indicating a loving relationship between the pair. There is irony in the excerpt when Chua screams “RELAX”, and “Mr Shugart said RAGDOLL”.(Chua 47-48) Chua's diction is very tense yet close, with aggravating words and phrases, but …show more content…
She does not share the same bond as Chua and LuLu - Tan and her mother have a very strained relationship. Their strained relationship is shown when her mother physically drags her across the house to the piano bench so she can play piano. Her mother seemed to have chosen what kind of daughter she wanted before she was born; she refers to “Only two kinds of daughters” and ”You obedient daughter” when she speaks of her. (Tan 141-142) Amy's tone is full of hate and disgust, and her mother's is full of disgust and lack of